Television has long been the home of a sort of censored reality, one in which people hardly ever swear and never, ever, get naked. But live TV can be a different beast. Like a boss. The crowd just laughs, Niven makes his jokes and the goddamn orchestra even starts playing a streaking soundtrack. It truly was a better time. Look, sometimes you meet Bob Barker and you get so excited your titties come flying out. I get it. Again, this is a case where everyone is just chill about some random nudity.
No one knows your situation the way you do. So there's THAT to look forward to. Congratulations on understanding that and avoiding problems. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. This can be done. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. Random Questions to Ask a Guy.
Good luck to you and your boyfriend. I think more than anything, the thing that gets me is this feeling of being marginalized in his life. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that all sexual relationships outside of marriage defined as the legal union between a man and a woman are sinful. It's not a gender issue or money issue. It just plain sucks. All parent-child relationships do. Do not make anything risque public. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books.